When children are born, intimacy in the couple becomes a mirage. Analysis and advice for sex after the birth of children. Sex after children: analysis and advice | Universomamma.it (source: adobe)Once a child arrives, sex life disappears in a couple. Unfortunately it is a subject that is very little talked about, perhaps in order not to extinguish our species. However, it is very important to talk about it, only in this way the new parents will be able to take note of what is happening to them and put together a remedy. READ ALSO -> SEPARATION | \u201cIF THE WIFE GOES AWAY FROM HOME, IT'S HIS Fault\u201d: SAYS THE JUDGE The sexologist at the Institute of Clinical Sexology in Rome spoke about this Roberta Rossi in an interview with DRepubblica. Sex after children Sex after children: analysis and advice | Universomamma.it (source: adobe)According to the doctor, it is inevitable that sex for the pregnant couple is upset, in fact in this physical state the woman usually loses her sexual desire. This happens to all couples who go through this phase of life but each couple then reacts in their own way. Some couples immediately resume a sexual life, while others struggle to find a new balance, this causes a fracture in their intimacy. READ ALSO -> SEPARATIONS ARE INCREASING BECAUSE YOU DON'T FIGHT: A DECALOGUE NOT TO "FUCK" Already during pregnancy the woman is very tired and even if happy with her physical state she has little desire and responds less to the sexual stimuli of the partner: in addition to arousal, orgasm and pleasure during intercourse also decrease. This leads to a decrease in the frequency of sexual intercourse which gradually becomes increasingly rare. For his part, the man, feeling rejected several times, withdraws and stops taking initiative. This leads to a decrease in desire also in the man and the couple turns into an asexual couple. At other times and after pregnancy it is the man who pulls back because he can no longer see his mistress in the mother of his children: this leads the woman to feel rejected. When the fracture is created, the couple does not even notice it as it is usually taken up by the needs of the newborn. When he finally realizes that there is a fracture, the way he reacts is fundamental to the survival of sexuality in the couple. If the problem is postponed, the couple will drift. Thus, from a couple of lovers, they become a couple of parents who grow up together and look after the child, always giving him absolute priority. The so-called "white marriage" derives from the lack of attention given to one's sexual intimacy: even after months the couple is unable to recover their sexuality. In this case, it is often a question of couples who have an important project together to carry out, which last over time due to the attention they pay to their children. After all, you can love each other even without having sex: there are couples who no longer do so and develop the affective part of the relationship: they are solid and symbiotic couples. The risk in a couple of this type is the arrival of a third party who stirs the desire of one of the two members of the couple, reminding him that sexuality also exists. READ ALSO -> POPE FRANCIS: "SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER TO SEPARATE FOR THE BEST OF CHILDREN" Sex after children: analysis and advice | Universomamma.it (source: adobe)Dear unimamme, what do you think of the advice on sex after the children of the sexologist Roberta Rossi? I personally would have needed this advice when my children were born, but it's never too late to develop good habits. To stay up to date on news, research and much more, keep following us on our profiles on GoogleNews.